tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-619155725432810897.post9126129488616147158..comments2024-03-29T09:17:09.869+00:00Comments on ***Sprinkle Of Glitter*** || Beauty | Baby | Lifestyle | UK: Three Is Not A CrowdSprinkleofglitterhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/03660311482636573049noreply@blogger.comBlogger145125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-619155725432810897.post-44982283920766379182013-07-17T20:46:29.506+01:002013-07-17T20:46:29.506+01:00I adore you and this post. My husband and I have b...I adore you and this post. My husband and I have been married for 3 years and have very little interest in becoming parents any time soon. People still think that they have the right to ask me constantly when I am having children. *sigh* <br /><br />brerogers.blogspot.comAnonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08515210952836072318noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-619155725432810897.post-22345619131255747942013-05-30T22:17:38.165+01:002013-05-30T22:17:38.165+01:00How rude!How rude!Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-619155725432810897.post-24534247712547391142013-05-11T03:20:27.389+01:002013-05-11T03:20:27.389+01:00My husband was planning on filing for divorce, he’...My husband was planning on filing for divorce, he’d left me for a younger woman, typical story, but three months on, your spell led him to come back to me and put ideas of divorce behind us thanks Esango priest. You can also get your ex back through Esango priest contact him via his email: esangopriest@hotmail.comAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-619155725432810897.post-48755697660413424662013-04-29T06:27:01.987+01:002013-04-29T06:27:01.987+01:00Thanks Louise! It's such a good reminder to th...Thanks Louise! It's such a good reminder to think about questions before you ask them! my older sister got married almost 2 years ago now and people are often asking me about when they will have children, I always feel weird, like I am expected to know, but Its such a personal thing it would be nice if people could respect a bit of privacy :) Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-619155725432810897.post-63055063299848523002013-04-26T22:32:04.533+01:002013-04-26T22:32:04.533+01:00oh Louise, I would love a few more 'extreme...oh Louise, I would love a few more 'extreme' posts from you ;) I really enjoyed reading this and I couldn't agree more! I hate it that people think it's okay to ask such questions. (there are some more of those questions like 'Have you gained weight?' or 'Is that a huge pimple in your face?' haha.) honestly, it's none of their business. most people don't mean to be rude but still, that topic is actually not small talk but instead quite private. and no one should feel obligated to justifiy himself for not popping out babies one after another. I'm 26 now, engaged to a wonderful man and people have been asking for some time now.. not only asking the question but also suggesting we shouldn't wait for much longer. and when I tell them that we may not be having kinds at all they're incredulous or even upset.. and then they start to talk about how kids are the greatest gift. it's not that I don't like kids, I actually love babies and kids, but that doesn't mean I want to have one myself - and I certainly don't want to deliver one. there are many reasons to have kids, but there are also many reasons to not have them, only people don't seem to consider the latter.. I have the feeling that the majority of people is just like 'Oh, babies are so cute! Let's have one!'Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-619155725432810897.post-52943966846779384022013-04-24T14:37:07.789+01:002013-04-24T14:37:07.789+01:00Although I don't have any children of my own (...Although I don't have any children of my own (yet!) I completely understand you wanting to enjoy one for a while, or forever. My sister has a 22 month old son and while she never wanted children, she adores him. Yet, now she is pretty sure she is done. She loves being able to spend lots of time with him and she just never wanted to have a bundle of children. I, on the other hand, want a zoo of them, but I'm almost positive that I'm the minority. Don't ever feel bad for only wanting one or two. It's your life! Live it how you want. If others want children...they can have them! :)Katherinehttp://www.myenglishstylelife.blogspot.comnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-619155725432810897.post-17649111109489872602013-04-23T17:58:15.237+01:002013-04-23T17:58:15.237+01:00Ahh i don't think people mean to come across a...Ahh i don't think people mean to come across a nosy or to irratate you although i can understand why it might,i think just cos you have so many nice ollowers who love to hear and see about Darcy that maybe they don't presume but i don't know what comments you have had so sorry if people have been a bit pushy but i think most are just asking the question,i for one knew you didn't want another for a good while as you said ages ago when Darcy was little,but as you say things can change and your life is how you want it at the mo and that is amazing i'm so happy your happy as you know how much i think ur a brill mum a brill person and i would love to meet you ;0) but after this blog at least people know and hopefully won't ask anymore and if they do then just said i did a blog on it so please go have a read,your an inspiration who loads of people look upto and sometimes i just think they prob feel that close to you that they would ask,but i really hope you have not had any questions that are too rude,mwhaaa the 3 of you make the perfect family xxx♥♥xxxAnonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02673437279670027633noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-619155725432810897.post-72539815249554149072013-04-22T22:34:24.189+01:002013-04-22T22:34:24.189+01:00Darcy really does seem so lovely and I can tell by...Darcy really does seem so lovely and I can tell by all your videos that everyone around you loves her but procreation is not for me! I'd rather not rip my body apart to have a little creation leeching off me for a minimum of 18 years (and probably more!). I enjoy seeing your family do their thing though. Love you, Louise! (: xxMichellehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05008428877025963968noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-619155725432810897.post-54237737891697080132013-04-22T18:08:42.978+01:002013-04-22T18:08:42.978+01:00I will have been with my husband for 10 years this...I will have been with my husband for 10 years this autumn and married for 4 next month, and people always question why we don't have any children and ask when we plan on having any, and it seems I'm questioned more as I approach the grand old age of 30 (a few days after our 10yr anniversary). From general questions to assumptive comments on my Facebook status eg. sleep troubles or early mornings, I've learnt to live with it but I wish people would think a bit more before asking or assuming. <br /><br />In the past I always thought I never wanted children, now I'm thinking maybe one day we will have one maybe more, but it's not essential to my life and certainly not something I am ready for anytime soon. My husband has always known how I feel and agrees there are other things we want to do first like travel more and get ourselves completely financially secure. I wouldn't want to have to struggle or worry. I see friends who have and while they are happy it's not what I want. I think the fact we only planned our wedding within 7 weeks (though engaged for years) along with just the simple fact we actually got married meant lots of people felt it was perfectly acceptable to constantly question us about our plans for children. Many of which already knew our feelings on the matter including his family who still try and encourage us to change our minds. It seems not all but a lot of people think couples only get married to have children, my husband's grandmother even went so far as to say we shouldn't have got married unless we were going to have children. I have seen many girls I went to school with, get married and within the year start having children so I understand why some people may think that way, but it's not fair to judge everyone by what some people have chosen to do. It does annoy me how people think it's okay to question me, then question me further on the matter and in some cases unfairly completely disregard me as a person worth speaking to, something which I have sadly experienced in a few temporary jobs I've had. In one job I was told by a lady who did speak to me that she thought I was brave for saying I didn't want any children to certain members, but they questioned me and I wasn't going to lie, I shouldn't have to. I'm certain it's a question those who really long for children but are unable to, seriously dread. I know after my sister and I were born my mother suffered from several miscarriages one of which she was hospitalized with blood poisoning, and she hated it when people asked her if she wanted more, it really upset her even though she was thankful for the two of us. For me my best friends both have children, I have a niece and nephew and I love children but I just don't want them right now, I'm currently quite happy being just an auntie and I don't think that makes me any less of a person. I actually think we are being sensible about it. In fact when people start really trying to question me and sometimes try and get in a debate with me over the matter, I answer quite simply that we know that having children is a full time job you have to commit to for the rest of your lives and right now we're just too selfish to make such a commitment. We currently want our time for ourselves, and to be fair to us and any children we may have it would only be fair to wait until, if and when we were fully ready for such a commitment.<br /><br />I know people are only trying to be friendly and starting general conversation when asking about my family plans, and there's no real malice there, but I find it rather intrusive and can sometimes find it a bit rude, more so when they then ask why, and especially when you are obviously judged on your response. Enjoy your beautiful family as it is Louise, how you and your husband choose to live your lives is nobody elses business other than your own. Whether you wish to have any more children and if so when, is of no concern to anybody else ;-) xoxGemhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00712732635159225631noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-619155725432810897.post-49959142079774775432013-04-22T17:06:13.835+01:002013-04-22T17:06:13.835+01:00I completely agree! I only ever wanted one baby, n...I completely agree! I only ever wanted one baby, now I have her I have no desire for another but I get asked the question all the time! My baby is only 5 months old and I'm already sick to death of the question! <br /><br /><br />navylouise.blogspot.comNavyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10785836413490061076noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-619155725432810897.post-10204858791386207912013-04-22T08:47:19.705+01:002013-04-22T08:47:19.705+01:00that picture is so sweet, it tells a nice story x
...that picture is so sweet, it tells a nice story x<br /><br />ravingbeautyx.blogspot.co.ukLaurenhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03472503735088430368noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-619155725432810897.post-23748704980412808302013-04-21T21:08:55.709+01:002013-04-21T21:08:55.709+01:00Hi Louise! Can I just start with how much I absolu...Hi Louise! Can I just start with how much I absolutely adore you! (creepy I know) but I have just recently stumbled across your youtube channel which lead me here and you have literally become a part of my daily life! I look forward to reading your posts and being inspired by your zest and enthusiasm for life. <br />My fiance' and I will actually be tying the knot in June! Just around the corner! And we are quite young (21) and we get asked the baby question constantly! It seems that every time I meet someone new I have to defend my uterus! "No I am not pregnant," "We don't have plans to start a family right away," "No I haven't missed my monthly visitor in red!,". It gets so frustrating and tiring! As of right now we are just enjoying being young, being in love, and pursuing our goals in life. We are committing our lives to each other because we love one another and if children are one day a product of that love we will be so happy and welcome it warmly! But for now my uterus and I would really appreciate it if everyone left us alone! Hope you and your family are well! :)Your Chubby Chummyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/18314361769411050970noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-619155725432810897.post-57909544769662852402013-04-21T10:22:19.297+01:002013-04-21T10:22:19.297+01:00If you are happy then I am happy :D
http://www.cl...If you are happy then I am happy :D<br /><br />http://www.classicquirk.blogspot.co.uk/DELETEhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06561294152758795779noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-619155725432810897.post-1468109678233340662013-04-21T01:37:59.943+01:002013-04-21T01:37:59.943+01:00Agree with you! People don't know to know the ...Agree with you! People don't know to know the ins and outs of everything! They should respect your privacy x<br /><br /> http://hearditthroughthegrapevinee.blogspot.co.uk/ <br />Megan starlinghttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04335364012348037873noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-619155725432810897.post-23871271809171283552013-04-20T22:05:11.238+01:002013-04-20T22:05:11.238+01:00I love this, people shouldn't just expect you ...I love this, people shouldn't just expect you to do what the majority of other people do.xx<br /><br />http://charlbo.blogspot.co.uk/Charlyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00845621752311829235noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-619155725432810897.post-91955354624362128642013-04-20T17:32:31.462+01:002013-04-20T17:32:31.462+01:00Personally I'm so glad to have 3 brothers, the...Personally I'm so glad to have 3 brothers, they taught me so much, always cuddled me if our parents went out and I was upset, and I never feel lonely thanks to them. But I know there are great benefits to being an only child too and if you are fine with one (gorgeous) daughter, that is completely fine!Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-619155725432810897.post-37173051394234723172013-04-20T14:00:40.233+01:002013-04-20T14:00:40.233+01:00I totally agree with you Louise! I just wish some ...I totally agree with you Louise! I just wish some people would understand that! xx<br />Anonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01398700481375904011noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-619155725432810897.post-44717967537366022742013-04-19T22:10:56.296+01:002013-04-19T22:10:56.296+01:00I get asked this already and our daughter is only ...I get asked this already and our daughter is only 5 months old! I am torn wether i want another baby or not, like you, the three of us seems perfect right now and the longer its just us, the more i want it to be just us, however, i always feel bad for thinking i would only like one child. Is it selfish? Is it fair on her to be an only child? Will she be spoilt? It's a tough decision but at the end of the day, no ones business but ours! xLived With Lovehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04314005731385741692noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-619155725432810897.post-47031188522805653092013-04-19T21:56:57.876+01:002013-04-19T21:56:57.876+01:00Amen sister. Amen. From Canada, hear hear! My so...Amen sister. Amen. From Canada, hear hear! My son turns two next month and I am also so sick of being asked when we are going to give him a brother or sister. Can we not just focus on how awesome he is? My husband and I literally high fived last night for keeping Thomas alive for 23 months, hahahah:) Celebrate and do what's best for YOU. *M*https://www.blogger.com/profile/06456998321117989644noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-619155725432810897.post-79025106857292555482013-04-19T20:57:10.023+01:002013-04-19T20:57:10.023+01:00we ask these questions because you seem to be a pe...we ask these questions because you seem to be a perfect mom, Darcy is loved so much that we/subscribers/readers simply wish a new human being would get that too!! on the other hand I completely agree that these questions are sooo personal and none of our business:)) yes it looks like everyone want to have at least 2 kids..at the end of the day, it is your and Matt's decision and we will love you no matter what <3Anna Mlejnkováhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05676643379175734844noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-619155725432810897.post-10294795248920507892013-04-19T18:17:09.602+01:002013-04-19T18:17:09.602+01:00Yeah I think people shouldn't really ask that ...Yeah I think people shouldn't really ask that question! It's also annoying when a couple have been together for years, or they already have a child, and people ask when they're getting married when maybe they don't want to get married haha?! :)user102https://www.blogger.com/profile/15868630264071006337noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-619155725432810897.post-2712975390927519062013-04-19T16:42:50.102+01:002013-04-19T16:42:50.102+01:00I would never ask someone that, personally I think...I would never ask someone that, personally I think that it's not really any of mine or anybody else's business to go around asking. If the couple want to, they will, and if not then that's their choice and it's not a big deal. I think I would find it rather rude to be asked such a thing, although I guess it depends on the person asking, but still! <br />Catriona Louise xx <br />http://undertheappletree18.blogspot.co.uk/cathttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07626180571056801953noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-619155725432810897.post-63268285979407424632013-04-19T16:39:31.599+01:002013-04-19T16:39:31.599+01:00I don't blame you for getting a bit annoyed! x...I don't blame you for getting a bit annoyed! xxx<br /><br />http://jeminixlife.blogspot.comJeminixhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05232155737520099120noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-619155725432810897.post-36270798602052655292013-04-19T14:35:54.010+01:002013-04-19T14:35:54.010+01:00Absolutely disagree with this - there are a millio...Absolutely disagree with this - there are a million things that childless people would want to talk to Louise about...if you're in any doubt look at the demographic of her subscribers and the wide range of themes of her videos?!Anonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16061038266474107358noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-619155725432810897.post-76087364621151994642013-04-19T13:53:46.700+01:002013-04-19T13:53:46.700+01:00Here here! It doesnt matter what stage of life you...Here here! It doesnt matter what stage of life you're at, people are always willing you on to the next thing - my single friend gets asked when she'll settle down, I been with OH 6 years (baby on the way) but we are always asked, on average once a week, when we are getting married, my friend who has one baby is always asked when she'll have another. People seem to think its ok to ask these things when it's not - it's rude! <br />I'm 18 weeks on with our first and I'm having a hard time telling people as those I have told so far have responded with 'ooh congratulations, was it planned? how long have you been trying for?' - all stuff that is frankly none of their business! :-)pinklovenuggethttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15013525895720558580noreply@blogger.com