Aloha Sprinklerinos,
Last week we had our cherished friend Clare over for dinner and heard all about a wedding she had recently attended. She told us about how the vicar at the service had offered great relationship advice and suggested that instead of a quick, 'love you!', trying, 'I love you because...' and a reason.
This struck a cord with me. Marriage is not my strong suit. I'm quick to temper and even quicker to point out Matt's flaws. I say loving things and so does he but I think after 9 years of being together and hearing them daily that the gravity of their meaning gets lost.
I realised that for all the frustrations I (sometimes unjustly) have, I don't do the things I want most to have for myself. I want to feel a bazillion per cent wanted and be appreciated for all my good qualities, whilst having all my bad qualities ignored. The dream right?
I find it so easy to think gorgeous thoughts about people but find it so challenging to say them to them. So here we are, still not really saying it to him, pouring it all into my blog which, sometimes it seems, I write mostly for my own therapy and sanity. I hope you don't mind.
Dear Matt,
I'm sorry I don't always communicate the really deep stuff with you and I'm sorry I automatically expect you to do that for me.
I love you BECAUSE you take care of all the little things like taking plates to the dishwasher and fetching me my laptop charger.
I love you BECAUSE you know what I need when I'm unsettled or worried.
I love you BECAUSE of your endless support to my passions. Remember in 2007 when I spent £300 on beads for my beading craze and you didn't mind? Haha.
I love you BECAUSE you know how much Sprinkle of Glitter means to me and hold it in high regard.
I love you BECAUSE in 9 years you have never made me feel less than I am.
I love you BECAUSE you sleep in the pinkest bedroom, just because you know it makes me happy.
I love you BECAUSE of the Father you are to Darcy.
I love you BECAUSE you continually and diligently try your best at work, every day, even when it's exhausting and frustrating.
I love you BECAUSE you put up with my mental ideas. Like the time I wanted to paint the bathroom gold or the time I wanted a loft conversion.
I love you BECAUSE you read all the links I send you to blog posts I've enjoyed.
I love you BECAUSE you let me sleep in the car even though you'd probably like some company.
I love you BECAUSE you don't mind how many makeup products I leave ALL OVER the house.
I love you BECAUSE despite me being a meanie more often than I should, you still love me back.
Love,
Louise.
xx
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Whoever it is you're saying, 'I love you' to, I'd encourage you to add a 'because' on there and strengthen your sentiments so much more.
Apologies for being so emosh, this post was probably more for me that you but I feel really good for writing it all down. Next step - saying it!
Toodlepip!
xx
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This is a wonderful post! The concept of adding more than just 'i love you' is really interesting xx
ReplyDeleteI thought the same when I read it, I never thought of the concept before but it's a great idea!
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This is so lovely! :) Made me smile. You are so lucky, to have found someone so special!
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Oh, I was just crying anyway. Beautiful sentiment.
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oh my goodness louise i absolutely loved reading this post! It's so easy to get into the habit of just saying i love you, or it being thrown around all too often. This is a fab way to show your true appreciation and love for someone you treasure :) Thank you so much for sharing louise :) You and matt are perfect for each other and are so lucky to have one another :) Wishing you both the very best! x
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This was absolutely beautiful!
ReplyDeleteThis was absolutely wonderful, thank you for reminding me to always let my boyfriend know why I love him, not just that i do.
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This post is lovely! I agree, saying a reason as well as the statement makes it much more meaningful :)
ReplyDeleteThis is the cutest post ever ! your relationship seems so strong ! xx
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I love this. You sure do have a wonderful husband xx
ReplyDeleteThis post is so lovely Louise! I often find it hard to tell my loved ones how much they mean to me, but this post seems to do it perfectly. It is all about the little things that we often take for granted, but miss the most when they are gone. You and Matt are my couple inspiration. Lots of love, Clare
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Aw that is so sweet, your relationship seems so happy, love you Louise!
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This was a lovely post!! I once did "100 reason why I love you" list to my boyfriend as an anniversary gift and he loved it!! it's important to tell the other person why you love them, i think, because not only does it feel good it will keep your relationship strong!
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Ahhh, this is so sweet. <3 I was actually wondering about the pink bedroom (if he minded, etc), and now I know. :)
ReplyDeleteThis is so cute. I can never say the things I like about a person to them either, it's a really hard thing to do I think which seems stupid really. Such a nice post<3
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This is a beautiful blog post Louise. What a great idea.
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Ah this was gorgeous Louise....
ReplyDeleteThis post genuinely made me cry, so sweet :') xx
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Louise this is such a lovely post! I'm going to start saying 'I Love You Because...' a lot more from now on (:
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This is a loveliest post of the day! Your husband is such a gem!
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This was such a lovely post, made me day <3 ...
ReplyDeletenow, time to go have a wee talk to my boyfriend :) xx
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Lovely little post Louise!
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So sweet <3
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Aw, this was so sweet! :)
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This is such a lovely post! xx
ReplyDeleteThis made me teary, because I relate! <3
ReplyDeleteSuch a lovely post, Louise, so sweet! :)
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Not going to lie, I teared up a bit at this! Lovely post :)
ReplyDeleteTugged at the heartstrings, that did.
ReplyDeleteThank you for sharing this with us, Louise :)
Oh, Louise! This made me a little weepy. This post was lovely and completely thought provoking.
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This is the sweetest thing ... and such a great idea. telling people the best parts about them is the nicest thing, because more often then not it's something they don't see in themselves as their own best bit!! i hope you and matt are the happiest. your family is so lovely and i wish you all the best!
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Awww this is gorgeous, I think anyone after being together that long can stop saying I love you sometimes - or just say it in passing, and forget what it really means. Lovely post for a Tuesday morning xxxxx
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Well this was lovely and probably just what I needed to see! I saw a post on tumblr the other day which had a list of little things someone might do for you and how sometimes, they may not be specifically saying they love you but these little acts tell you they love you and saying the words 'I love you' isn't always needed to prove your love for someone and I think that's very true.
ReplyDeleteYour honesty as to what marriage is really like is something that is refreshing, Louise!
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This is such a lovely idea... definitely going to do this. Thank you for sharing it with us
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This is so lovely, Matt seems like a real gent! x
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OMG that is just lovely, you seem such a lovely couple. I also realllly struggle to these kinds of things out loud so this is a great idea. x
ReplyDeletethis post was really beautiful and such a great idea to let your loved ones know why you love them xx
ReplyDeletethis is so sweet and really shows a true loving relationship, i think i'll carry this on myself in the future
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Awww this is such a nice post Louise. Really makes you think about people you love!
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Such a lovely post Louise! Enjoyed reading this!
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This is so beautifull!
ReplyDeleteOMG, I'm off work Ill and you've got be bawling my eyes out reading this!!!!
ReplyDeleteBeautiful, made me take a step back and realise how much I should be saying to my husband. Thank you
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Ah this post brought a tear to my eyes! I don't always comment but I've followed your blog and YT channel for quite a while now. I love your blog and YT channel because you are so genuine, you put the best of you out there but never shy away from your flaws. You're awesome Louise! xxx
ReplyDeleteLouise you are gorgeous inside and out and I respect and look up to you. You're so lovely and so genuine.
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What a lovely post :)
ReplyDeleteSuch a cute post Louise, I have so much respect for you being so upfront and honest. I'm sure it would make Matt's day to hear these things from you and I may just take this from you and use it when telling my own partner that I love him. xx
ReplyDeleteAbsolutely beautiful post Louise.
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This is so cute and special :)
ReplyDeleteThis is a lovely post, and a great though simple idea.
ReplyDeleteIt's crazy how it's always to the people closest to us that it's harder to say those things !
Dear Louise,
ReplyDeleteThis is the most beautiful thing I have ever read. Better than any supposed "love quote" bashing around on tumblr, weheart it or Pintrest. I am so happy that Matt and Darcy are your family and your relationship with them is just so incredible! This is probably my favourite post that I have ever read!
This is an amazing post, Louise! Thanks for reminding me to tell all my dear ones why I love them, as well. xx
ReplyDeleteAbsolutely adore this post. I may just have to do a similar one. I'll be sure to link you it! :) x
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This is a beautiful post.
ReplyDeleteAnd btw: You are a lucky lady, gosh he is soooo handsome!
This was so sweet. And also so true, it's important to tell that person why, rather than just I love you. It has more meaning.
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What a beautiful post! I loved it BECAUSe it was so honest and it touched me. I'm going to make a list for my boyfriend, who has been there for me for almost 9 years! Thanks for the inspiration, Louise :)
ReplyDeletethis is so beautiful! I'm the same when it comes to talking about feelings so this is such a good idea.
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One of my favourite posts EVER! Thank you so much for sharing, Louise, that was just beautiful. You are both lucky to have each other :)
ReplyDeleteBeautiful and inspiring, as usual!
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Aw you've made me very emosh! Now I have to go and give my husband 100 cuddles and tell him I love him any why. Lovely post sweetie. Thank you for sharing as it will bring a little more happiness to my day xxx
ReplyDeleteWhat a beautiful post! I actually feel an odd warming sensation in my heart... it's been awhile since something has touched me like that. And to think it's such a simple thing we can all do!
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This was such a lovely post to read and it really struck a chord with me, I so often take so many things for granted. And don't worry, the emosh posts are our favorites to read :) xxx
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I really love this post! It's such a good idea, I'm definitely going to be saying BECAUSE more often! And it's nice to see some more personal things about your relationship, I think it'll help remind people that you are a real person and not 'perfect'!
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This was so lovely to read! x
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This was such a beautiful post. Thank you so much for sharing, Louise.
ReplyDeleteAww, what a beautiful post Louise, it made me tear up a little! Marriage is a lot of work, lots of compromises, but it's very, very rewarding at the same time :)
ReplyDeleteWhat a beautiful post! So earnest and sweet and a pleasure to read. "I love you because..." is such a necessary conversation that we often forget to have :)
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How beautiful. I loved this post! You two are such a lovely couple :)
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I loved this post! I'm sure Matt knows how you feel about all these things really xx
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A lovely post - I'm going to start saying I love you because to my OH. He might think I have lost the plot but I'm going to give it a go anyway!
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This is super cute! My graduation id coming up and I've trying to think of ways to give loving goodbye gifts to my course friends. Creative sentimental thoughts are my fave :) xx
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this is so cute!! I have never had a serious relationship but I hope that I can love someone as much as you too love each other.
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This is such a great post Louise. I think we forget to really appreciate people sometimes. It reminds me that I need to tell my husband I love him...but more importantly Why I love him. :)
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aww this is soo lovely and romantic, i cant wait till i find somebody i love that much!
ReplyDeleteoh louise you made me get all gushy!! such a great idea on adding 'because' to 'i love you'...im definitely gonna do that :) xx
ReplyDeleteThis is too cute! Love!
ReplyDeleteSuch a sweet and thoughtful post, you and Matt are lucky to have each other :)
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Absolutely beautiful, Louise! Thank you for sharing and reminding us that the BECAUSE matters :) xx
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This is amazing Louise! I think it's easy to forget to appreciate the ones we love, but this is a great way to remember why we love them :)
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can you and matt just adopt me now please? you're the most beautiful, caring, and loving parents ever!
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Awwwh this is so sweet Louise! It can be so easy these days to find ourselves automatically saying 'I Love You' to the people we care about, forgetting the reasons why. This is such a lovely way to express yourself!
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Omg, got a huge bit emosh over here too! Listening to sentimental music and then reading this, haha! Gonna dry my tears and pick myself up now, haha. Xxx
ReplyDeleteI love this! (because it is so pure, real and makes me believe in true love) xx
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Aww this was so sweet, i loved it!
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This is a really lovely post Louise and I think it is something we should all try and do more as whole hearted compliments like this tend to get lost under all the stress of daily life.
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Lovely idea!!
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Best post so far! So touching!
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Wonderful post Louise. My boyfriend is in the army, so we get little chance to talk now he is away. Of course I tell him I love him everyday, but not why exactly. I definitely should get myself telling him! Thanks for the inspiration! Lilly xx alittlelilly.blogspot.nl
ReplyDeleteThis was such a thoughtful and loving post. I think it's s great idea, and reading this put the biggest smile on my face :)
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Fantastic post and so true. I find it so much easier to write these kind of things down than to say them out loud. Why? because I fear I'll sound silly or needy or clingy or just plain stupid. I've been made to feel that way in the past and it's a hard thought pattern to break through, but I'm getting there. I have someone now who isn't afraid to say these kinds of things and it encourages me to do the same...but I usually write them down first hehe!
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Louise! You made me cry :'( I can't even type properly from the tears streaming down my cheeks <3 xx
ReplyDeleteLouise this made me cry! This is the loveliest blog post I have ever read. Xxx
ReplyDeleteWhat a gorgeous post! I can really see that you too are so in love! It is sometimes hard to tell people how amazing we think they are, but I think this is a great practice! <3
ReplyDeleteaww, this is so lovely! x
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This is the most lovely post I've ever read, you're so cute! x
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I think I shall do this and make a similar list for my boyfriend now, he would be so touched by it xx
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Truly beautiful!! This is a great idea. I too can be so stubborn about saying the mushy things I'm feeling. Sometimes my mouth won't let it come out! Your marriage is so beautiful because it is real. Not a fake advertisement for a perfect marriage like you often see on blogs nowadays. Lots of love to you Louise!! ♥
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ReplyDeletei cried so much at this louise its beautiful!!!
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By far my favorite post by you Louise! Literally my eyes started wondering. You're living you're fairytale and I am sooo happy for you. You are very lucky to have him and he is very lucky to have you!! Love you very much Louise!!! xx
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I love this, Louise. I think everyone in long term relationships needs this every once in a while. xxx
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This is simple beautiful, Just wrote down a list about all the things I love about my boyfriend who is coincidentally called Matt also :) Thank you Louise, I'm often forgetting to tell him how much I appreciate everything he does for me x
ReplyDeleteThis is such a wonderful idea, and I think can be taken to any person you're saying it to, not just your signifiant other. I tell my family and friends I love them all of the time, but I think from now on I will add a BECAUSE as often as possible, to prove to myself I'm saying it for the right reasons and so they know what I love about them! :) x
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Well that just melted my heart. You and Matt are the most adorable people ever and I love your relationship so much, and I want something like that for myself one day.
ReplyDeleteHello from Canada! Louise, thank you so much for posting this terrific blogspot. I too have been married to a wonderful guy for the last 10 years and your post really got me thinking how sometimes us married people don't take time to tell our partners really what makes us love them and appreciate them. I suppose over time life happens, children happen and I guess to some degree we push those small important sentences out of the way. After all marriage is hard work! Thanks again for a great blog post!
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This post actually brought a tear to my eye, so sweet! I've been in a relationship for 6 years so I understand the way a simple 'love you' just becomes the norm, this is such a lovely thing to do, I'm going to do this with my other half! Thanks for the inspiration! Xx
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wow, this is so so adorable. Your relationship is so cute, you have a beautiful daughter, a loving family, loving friends and you have all of us. You are loved and wanted by many, you are so beautiful and goreous! you make me smile so much! I'm so proud of you :) have a wonderful day!xxxxx
ReplyDeleteWhat a sweet gesture, I love the idea of adding a 'because' to your 'I love you's' it seems like we just say the words all the time but never explain why we love a person. I'm going to give this a try!
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This post brought tears to my eyes Louise ! You're so sweet ! Matt is a lucky fella !
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yep, the tears started when you mentioned Darcy. You are lovely Louise, love seeing what we do of your little family.. so precious
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ReplyDeleteI loved this post Louise! I love sweet stuff like this, put the biggest smile on my face! I hope I'll find a love like yours one day xx
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This post was so heart-warming! serioust loved it xx
ReplyDeletei love this post. the husband and i have been together now for eight years and i think sometimes we sat i love you and we mean it but it is just something we say so i love this idea.
ReplyDeleteThis is so cute. I love it.
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this is so sweet! really nice idea and i liked your reasons:) the pink bedroom one made me laugh haha xx
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Absolutely well done! And I don't get teary eyed easily, but ... dammit, you got me! :) Also: taking care of the little things is so underappreciated, I'm glad you pointed it out. My boyfriend often makes me some tea or brings me cookies when he senses that I am stressed, always makes me smile.
ReplyDeleteSo happy for you and your husband, congratulations on 9 years and I'm sure, many more years to come <3
this really warmed the cockles louise, thank you
ReplyDeleteI have to agre with everybody else here, this is the cutest post. We should use I Love You more often and say Because too!
ReplyDeleteThank you Louise for posting it! Not only it warmed up my heart a lot and nearly brought me to tears. I also immidiatley send my beloved boyfriend a message following your suggestion and it felt so good!
ReplyDeleteLouise, I like you BECAUSE I can visit your blog/channel when I'm feeling down and I know I will get a sprinkle of your glitter and I will feel better again.
I love you BECAUSE you are real x
ReplyDeleteSo many of these rang true to me especially the pink bedroom. Touched my heart. I hope you don't mind but I am writing this blog post now with my reasons. I will link back to this post. I just think it is such a lovely idea and we should all do this more often :-)
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This was so cute! You and Matt are such a lovely couple.
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What a beautiful blogpost that is! I LOVED reading it! I love how you share all this personal stuff with us, it makes me feel like I know you so well, when in real life I've never met you before. You come across as such a beautiful person with a really big and loving hart! I really adore you and your family!
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This is beautiful. The love you and Matt share is something special.
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Adored this <3
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What a lovely post to read, i think i should try this, i too have been with my partner for 9 years so i can relate :)
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That's so beautiful. It brought a tear to my eye. You two definitely have something special. :)
ReplyDeleteLouise that was so lovely!
ReplyDeleteOh, this is so beautiful. You are so lucky to have someone so nice. And, this was truly the sweetest thing ever
ReplyDeleteThis made my eyes watery. Beautiful, good luck to both of you :)
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Great point - I've only just been comfortable saying those 3 words, however it is important to make it less of a habit and more of an expression of your true feelings!
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That was so cute! Louise is my favorite person in the world! Funny and adorable!
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This is lovely and so true! :)
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Lovely post Louise, I think I will try to start doing this with my family and friends (because I'm single)
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This is such a lovely post. x
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This is so sweet! it is the loveliest post I have read in a long time!
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This is the cutest thing ever <3
ReplyDeleteOh Louise! This is such a beautiful post, and I agree with you. So many people say the words "I love you" nowadays, but it seems like they don't fully mean it. I think it is the best idea, and should be applied always in a committed relationship, to add the word "because", followed by a reason that justifies the love. I feel like I can relate to this post, and I thank you for opening up and expressing this.
ReplyDeleteLouise. That's SO cute. I feel the same sometimes, you know? And I feel guilty about it.
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ReplyDeleteThis was so lovely and sweet :)!
ReplyDeleteI love your blogposts because of the real emotions, the truth behind every word you write and the honesty in being yourself.
ReplyDeleteAww thats lovely :) Louise thank u for reminding me to tell those things to my bf more often :) He absolutely deserves it :) Kisses from czech republic :)
ReplyDeleteSo beautiful! I hope you do say these things to him. There's nothing to be afraid of :) I can't wait to find such a wonderful man as you have!
ReplyDeleteThis is the CUTEST post ever! xx
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Louise this is so lovely, I don't have a man in my life but I feel I should talk to my best friends like this because they are so good to me :)
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I'm literally crying! These word are so kind and full with love... Matt is a lucky person because he has you! : xx
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Omg I can so relate you; often speaking flaws out loud but thinking inside all the nice things of my loved ones. Such a lovely read as usual Louise, I hope I can find an amazing guy like Matt! xx
ReplyDeleteI actually cried while I was reading this blog post. I think that this one was really cute :3 You and Matt are so lovely and I can really see how much you love each other. You made me really think a lot of stuff about love.. How ever.. I really loved this blog post. Loads of love to you and your family.
ReplyDeleteI loved this post and I definitely think people should take your advice and give reasons about why they love people, it shows more care and thought than just a simple "I love you" and it also helps you appreciate the people around you more and what they really mean to you. Beautiful :)
ReplyDeleteI love this Louise!
ReplyDeleteThis is such a lovely and heart warming post. :) It made me cry a little to read as it just makes me think about how much I love my boyfriend and how whilst I tell him those three words every now and again, I never go into too much detail about why I love him.
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This was lovely and something which I think the majority of us think/feel. I for one crave love and expect my partner to read my mind and text me at the exact moment I am feeling a little insecure. Whilst I do ALOT of love giving, I also think this can often lack the depth and meaning that it holds and the idea of saying WHY you love them, whether its the smallest thing like knowing I like one slice of toast with marmite and one piece with butter or offering to pay for things like a course for my future and supporting everything I do, is such a nice idea and something I want to implement in my own relationship from now on.
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ReplyDeletei hope i find a man who is as good to me as matt is to you someday Louise :) xx
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I hope one day we can find such a deep and romantic love like you have with Matt. You are so lucky to have found each other. Hold on tight and don't ever let him go.
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This is so gorgeous, made my night :) xx
ReplyDeleteThis is the most beautiful and honest blog post I have ever read! Thank you for sharing this with us, Louise!
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It is so important NOT to take another person for granted. I've been on the giving and on the receiving end of this advice in different relationships. I love the idea of always giving... never expecting... being delighted when someone shows such amazing love in a relationship.
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This is so lovely Louise and really struck a cord with me. I think everyone should do this for their loved ones and you've inspired me to tell my boyfriend what I love about him too, Thankyou :) xxxx
ReplyDeleteThis is beautiful. I'm just getting ready to move in with my boyfriend and I'm hoping I always remember to say those things to him. Thank you for the reminder.
ReplyDelete...and I'm crying. A beautiful, well versed sentiment. I wish you and your family the best. xx
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A beautiful sentiment Louise :) I sent your post to my partner and we are going to be incorporating it into our relationship <3
ReplyDeleteThis nearly made me cry! Such a good idea xx
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i love this post so much because i completely understand when you say you're quick to temper and point out your husband's flaws, i'm the same with my boyfriend! i am definitely going to write something like this because i feel as though everyone should know why they're loved as it's such a good feeling!X
ReplyDeleteOmg making me tear up at work - I couldn't even finishing reading the rest otherwise I know I'll be bawling! Such a lovely post x
ReplyDeleteThis made me cry! So beautifully written Louise! I so appreciate your honesty and thinking that I'm a little bit the same when it comes to expressing my love towards my boyfriend, friends and family I think I might write it down as well and hand it to them..
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Keep up the good work, you're such an inspiration ( and I wish I could pull off blonde/pink hair)
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